tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8370963538412640936.post183192416143774356..comments2023-11-03T00:29:11.690-07:00Comments on I Pee In The Wind: Notes From The Planet EXTentCamperhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00911767583033104298noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8370963538412640936.post-50400223290182325992008-09-19T08:11:00.000-07:002008-09-19T08:11:00.000-07:00Is this why you went private?Yeesh...Sorry y'all a...Is this why you went private?<BR/><BR/>Yeesh...<BR/><BR/>Sorry y'all are going through all this. And please, tell me WHY she is stalking y'all's blogs? (We all know she's the famous Anonymous over at Mariah's.)Lula!https://www.blogger.com/profile/18341753113164178323noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8370963538412640936.post-65377699687466322872008-09-19T06:59:00.000-07:002008-09-19T06:59:00.000-07:00I know where you are coming from with the ex- issu...I know where you are coming from with the ex- issues. I have been officially divorced for over 8 years, but the weirdness never ends.<BR/><BR/>I think your almost-ex is jealous, angry, hurt, insecure, etc. Is there any way at all that you all could sit down without the kids anywere near and try to discuss some sane solutions? Yeah, I know, much easier said than done. I've tried so many times to calmly talk with my ex-, but he keeps interjecting stuff like, "you know it was YOU who was the drug addict," "I was the one who saved YOU from a life of drugs," "You are keeping the kids in a prison." Stuff like that. He keeps projecting his crazy bipolar crap back onto me. So I just don't talk to him.<BR/><BR/>I really hope this gets better for you all.Terihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01722162542135510165noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8370963538412640936.post-18665868269023596822008-09-17T12:29:00.000-07:002008-09-17T12:29:00.000-07:00I can see why it would be difficult to deal with h...I can see why it would be difficult to deal with her on a day to day basis. Her moods were all over the place.<BR/><BR/>You guys were married for a long time so she should know you have nothing but the best intentions for your sons. I think she's overreacting.<BR/><BR/>And I think she shares some of the anger and jealousy.<BR/><BR/>Sad.Brandyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16775110752834313420noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8370963538412640936.post-5655026891599079072008-09-17T09:18:00.000-07:002008-09-17T09:18:00.000-07:00If your kids have issues.....they get them from he...If your kids have issues.....<BR/>they get them from her.<BR/><BR/>peace<BR/>#2Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8370963538412640936.post-58145920962580212992008-09-16T20:01:00.000-07:002008-09-16T20:01:00.000-07:00Indifference means you have gone on with your life...Indifference means you have gone on with your life and don't care what or who your ex is with. She apparently hasn't moved on. I don't give a shit what my ex says about me and I surely wouldn't follow him on twitter or read or respond to his blog. I despise my ex's wife but I truly don't give a shit what she says or does. She will hang herself. Don't give up fighting for your kids, They need to know you love them enough to fight for them. My 13 yr old told me it always made her feel like I loved her when I would have discussions about her. (They were fights)Be open and honest with your kids. Don't bad mouth their mom. do it here. hang in there.jill jill bo billhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08559834800523759760noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8370963538412640936.post-10818650750971056942008-09-16T16:55:00.000-07:002008-09-16T16:55:00.000-07:00She's still way too hurt by your leaving to act ra...She's still way too hurt by your leaving to act rationally. That's obvious. And very jealous of Insane Mama.Rheahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11027061380778030388noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8370963538412640936.post-16178447612650933412008-09-16T10:46:00.000-07:002008-09-16T10:46:00.000-07:00I may have never told you this, but Noah isn't my ...I may have never told you this, but Noah isn't my husband's natural child. Noah sees his Other dad every other weekend, though. Since I deal with him, maybe I can kind of see things from her point of view a little.<BR/><BR/>I agree with Stephanie and T. She's just trying to protect her kids, but is going about it the wrong way. She sounds really hurt and confused about it all. Having an angry child doesn't help. Also having one that tells stories can make it a lot worse. I know both of those things from experience. But I know to take some things he says with a grain of salt. <BR/><BR/>I don't know why she's reading y'alls twits and blogs. This isn't the place she should be getting her information. Maybe you could all sit down together and try to talk things out? The only thing is you all have to be able to put yourself in the other person's shoes. She may be the mother, but YOU are the father. Both roles are equally important.Wendyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17643438802935893718noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8370963538412640936.post-72606274073320852742008-09-16T09:52:00.000-07:002008-09-16T09:52:00.000-07:00how the hell do you get anything else done for hav...how the hell do you get anything else done for having to read all her emails? crazy bitch!Debzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06782022114303206069noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8370963538412640936.post-34792757268209256042008-09-16T08:14:00.000-07:002008-09-16T08:14:00.000-07:00I agree with Stephanie. As a mother, we tend to lo...I agree with Stephanie. As a mother, we tend to lose our minds anyway. It does sound like she honestly wants to have a healthy relationship with you and Mariah but can't seem to get past her own resentment. <BR/><BR/>You both sound very happy and she doesn't. She feels jealous and hurt and every now and again, reaches out but then.... she is obsessive about you both. Of course, then I understand it because she's trying to protect her children as any Mama Bear would do.<BR/><BR/>Still, I can't understand why she couldn't put her pride away and actually get to know you both better by actually spending time with you. I realize at this point it may be too late but... sheesh lady, all you're doing is pushing your kids' father further and further away.<BR/><BR/>Its too bad you guys can't work with a mediator or counselor for co-parenting.https://www.blogger.com/profile/10112766306021310705noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8370963538412640936.post-21261351545013394552008-09-16T07:21:00.000-07:002008-09-16T07:21:00.000-07:00I've no Words other than 'I'm sorry'. I'm sorry t...I've no Words other than 'I'm sorry'. I'm sorry that you and IM have to go through this. I'm sorry your children have to go through this. <BR/>Hold Fast brother. This storm will die down. They all do.<BR/>-peace to you and Yours.cIIIhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02758912891421225305noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8370963538412640936.post-90311413242565641222008-09-16T03:42:00.000-07:002008-09-16T03:42:00.000-07:00That woman has lost it and is grabbing at straws. ...That woman has lost it and is grabbing at straws. Is everything an issue for her? She has WAY too much time on her hands. Life is too short. She needs to spend more time spending time with "your" children instead of reading your blogs. I bet closing her off from this side is KILLING HER!! This was a good move on your part!<BR/><BR/>HAPPY TUESDAY!!<BR/><BR/>- JenniferJennifer and Sandihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11982886200936815914noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8370963538412640936.post-84945715846078891122008-09-15T23:57:00.000-07:002008-09-15T23:57:00.000-07:00whoa -was this all one email?sorry about not being...whoa -<BR/><BR/>was this all one email?<BR/><BR/>sorry about not being with your kids. <BR/><BR/>divorce is ugly and threatened adults are uglier.Swirl Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18241915723936809627noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8370963538412640936.post-2672524052476415182008-09-15T22:04:00.000-07:002008-09-15T22:04:00.000-07:00I see someone with a sincere, if severely misplace...I see someone with a sincere, if severely misplaced, concern for her children. I think she is suffering from this divorce as, I'm sure, are you for various reasons, and she doesn't know how to cope.<BR/><BR/>That said, she's handling the situation totally wrong. She should never involve your boys and her lurking around your and IM's blogs is slightly whacko. <BR/><BR/>I have learned in my life that we will be continually surprised by people's true colors, and the people we marry aren't always who we thought they were.<BR/><BR/>I find it so sad that a woman who once loved you enough to marry you now has so much hatred and venom in her heart toward you that she would set out to destroy your relationship with your boys and others in your life.<BR/><BR/>I wish you nothing but the best; I hope you can get this situation resolved soon and with little additional trauma. Everyone involved has been through enough, and you both deserve to get on with your lives. I hope she realizes that she'll be much happier with her life if she stops trying to dismantle yours.<BR/><BR/>Good luck.Gucci Mamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06098520618133302969noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8370963538412640936.post-84289516024764724332008-09-15T20:50:00.000-07:002008-09-15T20:50:00.000-07:00holy crap!! she is psycho!!!! she is the one that ...holy crap!! she is psycho!!!! she is the one that needs to be evaluated!amelia bedeliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18330802665397801131noreply@blogger.com