Saturday, October 18, 2008

3 Fucking Years!!!!!!

You ever have something that you really want to do (for many reasons) and you just can’t seem to get it done…no matter how hard you try?

Well that is MY LIFE!

As you all know…I married the wrong bitch-ass, cunt, troll, psycho person the first time around. We separated in September of 2005 and the divorce proceedings started shortly afterward.

Now…3 FUCKING YEARS LATER…I still can’t seem to get the freakin troll off my back!

I love my two young boys (who live with their motherfucker) to death…but I want the legal issues to be finalized so that there is no more back and forth and we can all move on.
I fell in love with Mariah (Insane Mama) and her kids…I want to marry her, but I can’t until my divorce is finalized.
I want to be able to get along ok with mongoloid cunt…but she is a nasty, backstabbing piece of shit…and I have to say that I’ve had some pretty evil thoughts about her…and her well being…and continue to find myself smiling after each thought.

How can a divorce case last more than 3 years when there is no fight over money or property? Well…let me tell you:

She has ‘changed’ lawyers 4 times…each time the new one would be granted a continuance.
She has come to every court appearance with long lists of accusations, which the judge (by law) has to examine.
She makes a point to state at every opportunity that she will not agree to, but is willing to ‘discuss’ overnight visits down the road…knowing that that is what I want…so we have to go back to court and fight again.

On another note….but about as frustrating…I had this throat problem since last December, where I irritatingly clear my throat every 5 minutes or so…EVERY DAY!!! At first I thought that I was just a bit sick, then tried some random over the counter meds that by reading them I thought might work. Then I went to see my Dr. who told me that it must be an allergy….although the allergist and blood work up that I had done said that I am not allergic to anything. My doc put me on Zyrtec D and the shit stopped…after about 2 weeks…but in the meantime…I got a cold and now, although not clearing my throat…I can’t get rid of my hacking cough. Just another thing that I just can’t seem to have ‘closure’ with.

TALK ABOUT PEEING IN THE WIND!

22 Comments:

Insane Mama said...

I can't believe all the court shit you have had to deal with, IT SUCKS! We'll get married someday... That can't keep you married forever can they?

Stephanie said...

You'd think by now the judge would be getting tired of her (seemingly obvious) tactics. I wish I knew of something you could do to put a stop to this. I've never understood why people won't just let go in these situations, as if behaving like a lunatic is helping anyone. I'm sorry for all she's putting you and your boys through. Hopefully you'll see light at the end of the tunnel soon.

Rhea said...

I'm so sorry your divorce is taking so long. That's beyond frustrating. My husband's a family lawyer, so he sees the craziness that occurs in the courtroom with divorces and custody battles and such. :o(

cIII said...

Hold Fast, brother.

This storm will Weather. I watched a Simular situation unfold in my own Family. It's a huge pain in the Ass, but, the proponent will lose Steam eventualy.

Glad your Back.

sista #2 said...

Takes a lot of energy to hate someone and torture them like she does you. Ya think the bitch would be tired by now.

bitch

peace
#2

Molly said...

I am so sorry that you have to go through this, divorce can make you feel like shit. But at the end of the day, you know she is only stalling because she is jealous of your happiness and I know IM is worth the wait so hang on in there.

Teri said...

To say that divorce sucks is a major understatement. Mine only (!) took 20 months, but trust me, the residue is still there 10 years later. Just won't go away.

And I totally understand your smiling about the evil thoughts. Been there way too often myself.

Glad you're back.

The Mom said...

Praying you can get this over and done with.

A Tent Camper/Insane Mama wedding would be the BeST flippin' party ever! You know you'll have to invite us ALL! ;)

Deb said...

I stopped coming over here about a week or so ago cause I was starting to believe you left the campgrounds and just abandoned me.

I can't believe that the crazy not quite ex is still causing you so much grief. There has to be an end to it. The light at the end of the tunnel. Soon. I hope for you.

Brandy said...

Glad to have you back! Sucks that you have to go through this and I agree with some of the other comments. The court should see her shit for what it is and put a stop to it.

It's her way of controlling you - that's fucked up. Hey, I'm a 2nd wife too so I know how vindictive them 1st ones can be.

Jennifer and Sandi said...

I am so sorry to hear about the court battles with the overnights. It will work out!!!

Nice to have you back!!

*COUGH*..... sorry, I cough all the time

- Jennifer

Swirl Girl said...

I checked in every day for a while, then...nothing new. Glad to see you are back.

Now, Mariah is feeling like she has to get outta here.

What insanity is this woman putting you both through?

Isn't there a witness protection program for bloggers? Oh yeah- there is. It's called 'change your names' and 'go private'.

Our legal system should be ashamed of itself. This woman is not a suitable parent any more than she is claiming that you guys aren't.
Doesn't the judge see that? Vindictive is not strong enough a word.


Please keep in touch via email or phone.

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ps- I have a gift card to Applebeee's (is there even one around?) from Kat for being the Randomly Popular Blogger - we should have mojitos with it!

T said...

Hi sweetie. I'm sorry that you are going through all of this but I'm so happy you're BACK!!!

Sending you lots of positive moving forward energy!!

sassy stephanie said...

Man, this all sucks. She's taken you guys away from us! Glad to see you are both not backing down.

I guess take comfort in the fact that she is a jealous bitch with nothing better to do. I seriously pity people like her. Too bad she doesn't focus her energy on her kids instead of, I'm sure, making their lives miserable as well.

Krista said...

My husband has that nasty shit in his throat, too. It annoys the hell out of me that he is always clearing it..I quietly fight the demon inside of me to NOT say anything or complain about it. He's already on allergy meds, so it's not the cause for him. But good luck to YOU!

Christy said...

I know how desperate one can be for closure--I'm a a big fan of it myself. Without it, you can be really stuck and not able to move forward (which I'm sure you're feeling with a vengeance right now.)
I'm sorry for all of this crap...I always have to think that there's a lesson in anything difficult that we go through, but it's not always clear what that is! SIGH

Two Dogs Running said...

So glad you're back.

amelia bedelia said...

yes, it took me 3 weeks to realize that you had posted. sorry! and HOLY MOLY, that lady is bAAAAAAAD!

Jennifer and Sandi said...

OKAY it's been a month!!! Get posting buddy!!!!

Hoping your overnight issues are being resolved so you guys can spent time with your kids!!!

Happy Wednesday! We miss your postings!!

- Jennifer

ciara said...

have you ever thought about having her psychologically examined by courts? she sounds totally whacked! hubs and i...div in 3 mos. he asked for continuance just once cos he was going to hawaii w his first x (they got bk together 10 mos into our sep. he's moved on since, but whatever lol)hopefully you'll get it sorted soon :)

SweetPeaSurry said...

You all confuse me ... Insane Mama, Mariah, Bedtime Tales, Tent Camper. I swear ... Ya'll are like the revolving door of the Witness Protection program or something.

Your ex really is a piece of shit, erm ... work rather. Too bad karma isn't kicking her face in already!

Poetry Sue said...

My divorce took 4 years to get finalized... and I still have to go back to court to try to get my ex to pay his spousal support. DIvorce is never pretty.. even if it is amicable there will always be some animosity...

 

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