So, have any of you ever met someone that is so vile that every time you see them, talk to them or even think about them…you get weak, sweaty and have uncontrollable dry heaves? Some of you, I’m sure, know the feeling.
Now imagine that no matter what you do or say…that person continues to haunt you. Like having Freddy Kruger creeping into your head…day and night.
Well……you guessed it…we now have the pleasure of exploring my … (oops….sorry…just blew chunks) ex-wife (well actually not even ex yet.)
My god this is a long, exhausting and terrifying tale of frightening proportions.
I will talk more about the back story later (or upon request) but the basics of the story now are that she, stupid, nasty, pig-headed, psycho, vindictive, delusional, idiotic, pompous, BigFoot, bitch has not allowed me to see my two young boys for 7 months and we are now headed back into court next week. I fear that I will just vomit all over her right there in the courtroom. This divorce was originally filed 3 years ago and …. Is now that never-ending nightmare. If there were just one day where there were no laws :)
We’re not going anywhere.
2 days ago
15 Comments:
Babe
You summed it up nicely...
It will end, I promise, I hope, I think
It will end, yes...but sorry to say you will be in the court system forever...because of the list of names you mentioned!!! She will never let you go. I know this because my divorce took 2 years, protective orders(for me and the kids), $75,000 and now we're back in court because of child support. The only end to that crap is when the children turn of age. Then...maybe..
We went through this with my hubby's ex.
They had no kids, but she wanted his social security. So she fought us tooth and nail. Refused to sign any papers. Finaly, he got fed up with acting nice and went to court and filed for divorce.
Divorce was granted, then about a week before we were due to get married, she filed to have the decree of divorce vacated. Fortunately the Judge denied her filing, however it was rather stressful at the time.
Hang in there, it will eventually happen.
I'm going to run right home and check and see if my husband's ex-wife could possibly be married to you, too... I thought she was only torturing one other husband, the one she cheated on mine with, but apparently she gets around...
Sorry.....mine just disappeared. It was easier that way (thanks ex for deciding to shirk your responsiblities instead of fighting me). Wish yours was easier.
Unfortunately, even after the divorce is "official", the nightmare will continue since you still have to deal with her when it comes to your kids. My ex drives me NUTS. I wish I were as lucky as Mama Dawg. Good luck with that! Hope things work out for the best for all of you!
Yeah. I know that this will drag out for some time, but I hope that this next court date will at least solidify the visitation. I have learned to ignore "Sasquatch" for the most part....and I have MY Insane Mama to keep me sane. (that kind of make no sense... insane mama to keep me sane.)
I need the backstory!
And, OMG! I hope you get to see those kids soon. And, please don't puke.
I'm not sayin O.J. killed her, but I understand.
Matt
www.idealcrap.
I promise to give you all the back story...soon. I will have an in-depth update on the 10th after court.
Believe me when I say, OJ, freddy, jason, Kavorkian,etc. are pussy cats compared to where my had goes sometimes. Luckily, I am not THAT crazy.
Ex's and Herpes- the gift that keeps on giving...
I found you from help i have a teenager via sits. no offense I hope but I just have to ask because I have been through this. how is it that your ex can keep you from seeing your kid for so long? is there a court order for visitation that she is violateing? you said that you have been in the nut house as you put it. ive been in a similar siutation so i have conditions on visitation with my kid. make sure you do what the court says, make sure you pay support if you have to and make sure your ex doesnt see this blog where you say that you want to kill her. lol.
As of this moment, the courts said...every other weekend. she and her attorny found a way around it until we get back into court. He did not do some of the papework before which makes it so the police can't help me until we see the judge again.
Let me make it clear...I never said that I waned to kill her. Somewhere in the vastness of my head....I understand the feeling. :)
This is a crazy story, thanks for sharing it
I just read all your blogs, and you will be one of my regular reads
Thanks for being so honest.
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